COOLcalmT...NOT GAY SINCE 1986

COOLcalmT...NOT GAY SINCE 1986

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28 March 2011

Do I Put Out A Gay Vibe? UPDATE UPDATE UPDATE

Please read the below post first.

I have an update regarding the Do I Put Out A Gay Vibe? post...

I spoke to the girl I danced/grinded with all night, who is a much more reliable source after thinking about it. I decided to ask her because I spent a lot more of my night with her, she's an extrovert, wild, and more open. I've been racking my brain with what I did that night or what Mike's girls is thinking...

This is the response from the dancer girl...
My question: "Weird question, the other girl sat night asked if I'm gay for unknown reasons - did/do I put out a gay vibe?"
Response: "U definitely do not, one of my best friends is gay & I hang out with enough gays to say absolutely not. Her gaydar must be shot"

She also mentioned I was a great dancer (not just for a white person either) - not sure if that helps my case, but I'll take it!!

Honestly, that was the best text I've received. Better than 'it's not aids, just a bad cold' or 'not pregnant' or 'earthquake in Japan, thousands lost'.

Feeling much better. I also asked a co-worker and she said no as well. So two trust worthy sources say no and one very unreliable, not accepting person thinks so. I think I'm good.

I honestly think, this other girl, is just not that open minded and didn't understand Boat Shoes or guys with good hair or guys who don't care what people think or what they say. Well I'm all of those and not been gay since '86!!!

If any of you still don't feel safe about your anuses when I'm around, we can discuss that, although I would just take it as a compliment.

As I look deeper into her response...should I be gay? Get a bunch of girls as friends and then run train? I'm thinking that might be an OK way to go about it? I would just have to work on my transitions, but I got the time. That's a post for another day (I'm already laughing, haha lol).

So all in all, this is what has come out of this incident...
- Attractive, non-judgmental girls don't find me gay, they find me fun and a great dancer. That could push me a little close to the friend zone but I'll work that out.
- Mike's girl is my #1 NEMESIS (until she explains her thoughts) HATE HATE HATE! 

What a roller coaster 2.5 days. I think I learned a lot and am ready to move on. I'll continue being myself because I'm FUCKING AWESOME!!!!!!!!!


NOT GAY!!!!
(but supportive)

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